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Save the date: 10th annual Captain Dan Days at Lucan City Park on May 14-15


The Last Hurrah for Captain Dan Days event
It is with mixed emotion we announce our "Last Hurrah" for Captain Dan Days event at Lucan City Park. It has been more than a softball and volleyball tourny to us, it has been a weekend filled so many emotions. The event was started by family, friends and neighbors and the event will end with family and many new friends again coming together to "embrace life". I have always believed that good comes from everything, sometimes we need to look deep, but it is there. If you believe, have faith and keep on keepin' on, God will bring you to it. We may have lost a son on that cold, stormy night, but we have gained tenfold in God's graces.

On December 25th, 2001, we celebrated one of the most perfect Christmas holidays ever, I remember thinking that night how blessed Terry and I were. Our five children were all home. Dominic age 5, received his first pair of wrestling shoes from his big brother Daniel. I will never in my life forget the look of pride as Daniel placed those shoes on his little brothers’ feet and tied them up snug, then instructed Dominic to do a wrestlers stance.

Three days later we were called to the horrific accident site to find our son. Terry is forever changed from that scene as he helped pick his son off of the gravel road to a gurney for his final ride to a funeral home. Michael rode with his brother in the vehicle, cuz he didn't want his brother to be alone.

I could tell you many very graphic scenes from that day, they do not leave our minds eye, sometimes when I close my eyes to rest, I get vivid pictures of him laying there, all alone for 12 hours in the freezing cold, bloody, frozen, broken, dead, it makes me sick and angry, I can not stop those ugly pictures in my mind, it happens less now, 9 years later, more often now I see him in dreams as a happy young man, I see him home with our Lord and that gives me peace. I can rest better...it is an ugly thought isn't it, to think some families have to live with things like that in their minds, but they do

Somehow, through the fog, we have emerged and are stronger, more faith-filled than before the accident. We have gained so much through the loss of a son and brother. How can one gain through tragedy you might ask? It is through the grace of God, patience, kindness, understanding and the realization that it is okay to step out of the box and really just put your heart on the line, tell it like it is, if you don’t want to hear it, then don’t ask, "How are you?". If you listen you just might realize that you are one very blessed person to have not experienced the loss of a child or brother.

Sometimes you need to hear and see the ugly to help me. Sometimes I just need to say it out loud. It is okay for me to do that and it is okay for you to listen and not have an answer. I did not choose this path, it happened to our family, but we do have faith that we are not alone, Jesus is always here and He will guide us if we just listen and take His hand on this new journy.

A young lady emailed me today and asked, "Laurie, why is this the last Captain Dan?" my answer to her was simple, "Christina, it is the last one because in May of 2002 I promised myself I would do this for 10 years, it is 2011 and we did it, we reached our goal." The following are highlights from the past 10 years.

In Jan. of 2002, Minneota’s Ryan Fier gifted his Championship Section 4A medal to our son Brandon. It was a gesture that will forever be etched in our hearts and minds. It was an act of kindness, sportsmanship and respect. Both boys had lost a brother and gained a deep friendship. Ryan was a champion on the mat that day, but remains a champion in our hearts forever.

Captain Dan 2002, first event is held at Lucan city park, $18,000.00 is raised, a $15, 000.00 Endowment fund is established at SMSU and scholarships are awarded each year to a Mustang wrestler.

Spring of 2002, the Mustang wrestlers, Dan Snobl and Coach John Sterner moved a massive oak tree to our farm to plant in tribute to their teammate. There was also an oak tree planted in courtyard at SMSU near wrestling room, Dan Snobl keeps Laurie informed of the trees status each season, these little updates from Dan Snobl mean the world to the Ourada family.

Daniels cousin, Jason came to our farm and hand built a fieldstone wishing well that Daniel had planned to build for me for Mother’s Day.

Captain Dan 2003, we create a $14,000 Endowment fund in Daniel's name in Wabasso/Lucan area to gift our scholarships to highschool students.

Captain Dan 2004, after balloon release, a man approaches me arms open wide, he takes me by the shoulders and looking directly into my eyes he says, “thank you for allowing me to remember, I was told I needed to forget” I watched him walk away, his head bowed and tears streaming down his cheeks, his body trembling. I later learned he lost a child 50 years earlier to a farm accident and never cried over his son. I have since visited with him and learned the boys name and some of the fun antics the child like to pull. He was real and will never be forgotten.

Captain Dan 2005, as ceremony is about to begin the guests are all looking up into the sky, Shannon comes to me, tears in eyes and says,” Laurie, look up! An eagle is circling the park directly overhead!” That was a powerful moment for me, as I believe deep in my heart that my son now soars on the wings of eagles in the presence of the Lord.

Captain Dan 2006, we dedicate an outdoor basketball court to city of Lucan in Dan's memory. A mother who lost a son 15 years earlier, is gifted a rose from Terry, she embraces Terry in a hug that lasts an eternity, she is grateful for the gift of "remembering her son".

Captain Dan 2007, We release 3 doves in tribute to our soldiers who have given the ultimate sacrifice. We invited the Patriot Guard Riders to stand flagline in tribute. 125 motorcycles and their PGR riders processed into Lucan. I remember standing on the street that day as they came in and I cried in joy and disbelief…they came to support us and they came because we asked them too. The Lucan park was filled with a sea of red, white and blue that afternoon. This was also the day Terry and I decide we will join the PGR.

Captain Dan 2008, I have an urgent need to invite the JOS families, I reach out and they link on, they are amazing families of strength and faith, we have grown thru their belief and support. Jesse, Hunter, Emilee and Reed will never be forgotten, they live on in our hearts forever.

November of 2008, Coach Jesse Nelson, arranges the first Daniel Ourada college wrestling tourny at SMSU. Great success and beautiful tribute to Dan's memory. I could sense his presence in the gym that day and it felt good.

Dec. 12th, 2009, a Christmas wreath is quietly placed at Daniel’s gravesite with a note saying, “Terry and Laurie, we knew you couldn’t make it out to Dan’s gravesite today, so we remembered to stop. This was Daniels’ sister Andrea’s wedding day.

Captain Dan 2010, during ceremony I was able to introduce my grand daughters, Madisyn and Cadynce to our guests, my pride and joy, the fact that tells me life goes on and God has great things planned for me.

Captain Dan 2011 will end as it started, softball, volleyball and beanbag tournies in park, grilling burgers, DJ music with surround sound in park, Larry Mages band , kids playing games, remembering our loved ones with a balloon and dove release. The event has always included everyone, it is not and has never been just about Daniel, we embrace and celebrate all loved ones. My highlights are the people who have touched our hearts, people who believed in me when I asked for support whether it be in form of physical help or donation of goods or money.

I did not mention the Blackhawk, Freedom Flight hot air balloon, the baby camel, the pony rides, the Championship game, the WW11 vintage plane flyover, why, well those were all nice attractions, but they are not the heart of the event. People are the heart of Captain Dan.

Remembering to Never Forget is my goal. You our guests have all touched our hearts and we promise to be your anchor should you ever need one.

Please know and believe we will never forget our son or your loved ones. They are real, they are forever etched in your heart and always a part of your family, continue to remember them through celebration of life, keep laughing, keep smiling, take time to cry, to remember, but most of all, please always listen with your heart and just be there.

“Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible” ~Helen Keller.

We have renamed our last event, "The Last Hurrah" Captain Dan Days is May 14-15 at Lucan City park…come help us celebrate life.

Sincerely,
Laurie Ourada
Captain Dan Dream Team, Inc.


We welcome teams from past and new teams to our event...all abilities welcome...there is a place for you if you want to play, the following is our line up, contact us to get signed up...Captain Dan Dream Team, Inc. - Laurie & Terry Ourada

3 on 3 Basketball teams for Sat. 11:00 am start time
two brackets, double elimination
Jr. division 5th - 8th grade
Sr. division 9th grade and up...
entry fee is "Free"
prizes will be awarded
contact Tony Ourada at 507-223-5259 or tony@tonyourada.com



Co-ed Volleyball
Sat and Sunday tourny
Captains: Shannon Kumpf, Jen Otto and Teri Hacker
3 guys/3 gals or 2 guys/4 gals
on sandcourts.
$60.00 entry fee per team
will play Sat. and Sun. May 14-15
contact Shannon at 507-828-0977
or bananabob733@hotmail.com
or Laurie at eagle157@means.net

Beanbag teams for Saturday tourny 12:30 start time
Captain: Brandon Ourada
829-5181 or bsourada@earthlink.net
will play on Sat. May 14 sign up with Brandon
or Laurie at eagle157@means.net
sign up by noon on Sat. and tourny starts at 12:30
entry fee is $20.00 per team.

Co-ed Softball for Sat. and Sun. tourny
contact Laurie at eagle157@means.net
 
Dodgeball for Kids
will be played on Sat at 1;00
grades 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8 will be bracketed
3 boys and 3 girls per team.
free entry,
prizes for everyone.
ref's Paul and Jan promise a fun time on courts.
no head shots, come with a team name
sign up by 12:15 May 14 with Laurie eagle157@means.net
 
OMK (Operation Military Kids)
Activities on Sunday at 2:00 following
Balloon release in park. Theme is  Blast off with Captain Dan and will be all about rockets and fun.
Lighterside Clowns and CT Clown will be here to entertain us.

National Eagle Center will be here with an eagle display on Sunday, May 15

Lucan Summer Rec
Will plan some fun activities in park on Sat. also, time to be announced.
if interested in any of the above please let me know or contact the team captain for more info.
we welcome help in form of hands, supervision of activities, grilling , concessions workers, etc.

Thank you,
Please help me spread the word by forwarding this onto others you think may be interested.

www.captaindanfundays.com will post updates as time gets closer and we will be printing posters to be distributed

Laurie and Terry Ourada
Captain Dan Dream Team, Inc.

2011 Captain Dan Dream Team t-shirts and hoodies are ready to be ordered

If you would like to order please email Laurie Ourada at eagle157@means.net to request more info or place an order. We are requesting payment prior to April 22 to allow us to pay for items upfront. Borches is doing our print job and we need orders in by April 22. Payment must be received to ensure delivery. You can pick up your items at event.

 


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Captain Dan's Dream Team

Each year since May of 2002 Captain Dan Dream Team gets together at Lucan City Park to host a weekend of fun family activites, we play softball, volleyball, beanbag, dodgeball, basketball, host children’s activities,5oo balloon release to loved ones, full grill, beer wagon, concessions and of course there is music both days. We do this to celebrate life and to tribute all the things that Daniel Ourada enjoyed doing with his family and friends.

Daniel OuradaDaniel is the son of Terry and Laurie Ourada, brother of Andrea, Brandon, Michael and Dominic.
He was a 4th year student at SMSU in Marshall, MN and a wrestler for the Mustangs, wrestling at  157#.

On Dec. 28, 2001 while driving back to Marshall, where he lived, he was killed at a negligent bridge site near his home on a gravel road. The communities of SMSU, Lucan, Wabasso and Milroy as well as many surrounding communities and organizations rallied together to help the family in any way possible. The response was so overwhelming and there were so many requests of how can we help? Then Andy Ourada came forward with the idea to start a scholarship in Daniel’s memory at SMSU and the seed of Captain Dan Fun Days was planted. The rest is history as you will read.

Captain Dan Dream Team is comprised of a group of very dedicated family and friends who each Jan. meet to plan the next May’s events. Everyone volunteers their time, why do they do it, because they believe in this event and its cause, the camaraderie, the fun and just because we can… the proceeds have exceeded everyone’s expectations year after year the past 6 events and all monies are put back into the communities of the local area and organizations that Daniel was involved in. I, Laurie Ourada, call it my “celebration of life weekend.”

2009 Photos

Captain Dan Days

“Embrace Life”

“Hope sees the invisible, Feels the intangible, and Achieves the impossible”

~Helen Keller

Stern DesignEach year I choose a quote or theme for our Captain Dan Days event, I pondered long and hard on which quote I feel is the focal point I want to make this event. After sharing several with my family, we chose the above and then submitted to Coach John Sterner to come up with a design to fit the quote, and he of course created a beautiful eagle design with full wing span. We used his design with the quote on our shirts and hoodies and even had an embroidered patch made with the design. It has been said to me several times over that we put a lot of heart into our event!! We do work really hard to try to make this a special event, maybe even like a family reunion of sorts and it is working, there are many families who come and spend the entire two days here, we try to cater to the young kids and family and have fun music and games going on at random times throughout the park. It has been stated that we pay attention to detail, I believe that if we touch just one more family or individual at our event and make them feel good or special then it is well worth all the effort put forth. My dad always told me,

” What goes around comes around ” My family has been blessed ten thousand times over with the love and support of family, friends and community after our son Daniel was killed at that ugly bridge site.

Then our daughter was deployed to Iraq as a Blackhawk pilot and again we were surrounded by love and support all through her deployment and the welcome home ceremony….

A soldier this weekend came up to me and thanked me for welcoming her home, she had served in Iraq and when she came home wasn’t met at the airport by family or friends, her job wasn’t waiting for her and she had no place to call home, her husband had left her and  this was her first Captain Dan event, this was the first time she witnessed a Patriot Guard Rider stand flag line, she broke into tears and stated, “I just need to hear that someone appreciated what I did” I told her I appreciated her and then I shook her hand and looking directly into her eyes said, “thank you and welcome home”.

Another story I want to share with you is of when our daughter came home from Iraq this past July of 08. She did not come home with the main body of soldiers as planned, she learned of several soldiers who needed to get home and there were no seats left on aircraft, so she and several other soldiers from her battalion gave up their seats, only to leave a week later to return home to America. The main body of soldiers received a large welcome home, PGR flag line, TV coverage, journalists everywhere as it well should be. When the small group returned behind the main body, it was a small welcome home, PGR flag line, mostly family waiting impatiently at the gates for their soldiers. But what will forever stand out in my mind is of one lone soldier still standing on the curb, cell phone to ear, bags at his feet, parking lot empty of cars, everyone gone except our family and him, we approached him and asked if he was waiting for a ride, he stated that he couldn’t reach anyone to come get him…we immediately told him we could take him wherever he needed to go and we meant it, even if it meant traveling to the northern border or southern border, we would give this soldier a ride home. As he picked up his bags to come with us to our vehicle,  a car pulled up beside him, the driver rolled down her window half way, stated, ‘ hurry up I haven’t got all day”!!

There was no, “welcome home Joe”… just, “ hurry up, I have things to do and you are making me late.” I wanted to ask that young lady to step out of her car and tell her a thing or two about respect, dignity and gratitude for our soldiers, but she was in too much of a hurry chatting away on her cell phone to give me a second glance. This is America, Land of the Free and our soldiers fight for her rights too. Crazy!!

That my friends is why we do what we do at Captain Dan Days event on Sunday of the past 6 years, we tribute our soldiers, veterans and families. We honor our fallen heros and the families left behind. We fly in a Blackhawk to land in our little city park. We thank the Mn. Patriot Guard Riders with a fly over of Ron Fagen’s WWII planes, we bring the Freedom Flight hotair balloon to help expose our kids and communities to the “real” world. Do our kids even know what MIA/POW, KIA, WIA stands for ?

 I feel it an honor to invite our Patriot Guard Riders to our event to stand silent flag line. It is my duty to support my neighbors, friends and family sons and daughters as they serve in the military.  One of my favorite quotes is this and it says it all…

“Only two defining forces have ever offered to die for you. Jesus Christ, who died for your soul and the American Soldier, who died for your Freedom”   
~Tony Blair

Our 8th Captain Dan weekend has come and gone and left behind many great memories. The weather was cool but dry. We even lite our fire pots each day to warm ourselves while taking time to chat with a friend. We hosted a 10 team softball tourney, 6 teams of volleyball, one classy act was displayed by a new entry to volleyball, after winning the tourney the team from Franklin stopped and said thank you to the team captains and then bought a cold beverage for each of the other team place winners. We welcome them back again next year. Go Franklin !

Beanbag was run by Brandon and Sandy O.  kids dodgeball ref’ed by Paul and Jan Brown, obstacle courses hosted by Dustin and Darcy Tietz, lil’ tots playtime run by Sheila Rubendall , Jessica’s lil’ pony rides, Rockwall and obstacle course by Nat’l Guard. We had volunteers from community service, family, friends, Confirmation kids, NHS kids. There was activity going on everywhere….and the music was amazing DJ Dave Munsell once again serenaded our guests with music in all parts of the park. He is one amazing, talented, energetic, music loving man….then we were treated to a “live band” on Sunday with Larry Mages and family, they learned several new songs for our ceremony and balloon release…we are forever grateful for their presence and we will always welcome them back to our Captain Dan Days.

We inflated 500 balloons in an hour with the help of our Compassionate Friends group for the balloon release on Sunday. It was breath-taking to watch as our volunteers carried the bundles of balloons from Com. Center to be gifted to our guests…it was so pretty to see all the colors mingled in the park and the then there were the hundreds of flags being displayed by guests as we awaited the arrival of 50 plus Patriot Guard Riders into Lucan.

Our focal point this year was to thank the Mn. Patriot Guard Riders for all they do to support our soldiers and their families.  So with special permission we dedicated the ceremony to the PGR. We thanked the PGR for standing flag line at funerals, prayer services, welcome home and send off ceremonies. We thanked them for doing, “what is the right thing to do.” We thank them for forming the Red, White and Blue between grieving military families and radical protestors. They provide support, respect, comfort, pride and reassurance and they do so quietly without need for recognition. Our Captain Dan Dream Team had a special patch designed especially for the PGR and gifted each one in flag line with one to say thank you for helping to support our mission of honoring our soldiers and their families.

At this point our eyes were directed to the skies just south of Lucan as we heard the roar of a P40 and a P51 piloted by Ron Fagen and his son from Granite Falls. They did two passes over the park in tribute to the PGR, our veterans and soldiers. They flew just above the tree tops it seemed and left a deep impression in many a veterans heart and a tear formed on many cheeks, as I witnessed several nearby wipe them away. Later these same veterans came to thank me for arranging this amazing show and I in turn thanked them for their service. My dad would have been so proud, for he too served in Korea on a tank and was a very proud veteran.

Sawyer Stevens and his dad Daniel (veteran of Desert Storm) along with Sawyer’s boy scout troop raised an American flag that was gifted to Alan Peterson, PGR sector captain by Captain Andrea Ourada. Kathy Meyers a PGR member sang the Nat’l Anthem. Brian Sams read a poem titled:

”I Stand for Those Who Have Fallen”. Duane Frank shared his impression of being welcomed home by the PGR. Laura Olson, KLGR shared her story of time in Iraq as a reporter. Larry Mages band performed the song, Strangers on Steel Horses, in tribute to the PGR.

And we ended with a dove release by the following

Rob and Cecilia Senkyr released a dove in tribute to Ana Marie who was born to eternal life on Jan. 15, 2009.

Chris Dunsmore a 23 year Nat’l Guard and Operation Iraqi Freedom veteran released a dove in tribute to fallen soldiers whom he served with in Iraq:

1Lt Jason Timmerman, SSG David Day, SGT Jesse Lhotka.

Alan Schunk released a dove in memory of his son Shawn and all victims of suicide, while we continue our journey here with peace of mind knowing you are now in God’s hands and we remain blessed with the gift of you. Today we celebrate your life. As the doves are released they go their separate ways, like you….going home!

And the final event of ceremony was the balloon release, my personal favorite, my time to think of my son…we ask our guests to close their eyes and get a picture of their loved one in mind…the song, “Sissy’s Song” is sang by Larry Mages and when ready to release your own balloon to the heavens….just imagine the sky so blue, and hundreds of colorful balloons floating towards  the heavens….hugs, tears, memories, smiles…life is good,  God is great….Amen

Kindest Regards,

Laurie Ourada

Captain Dan Dream Team, Inc.

Ourada Family

The Ourada Family

News

Your Invite to Capt Dan Fun Days 2011:

I am sending out a note to let everyone know we are planning our 10th and last event on May 14-15 at Lucan City park. It has been a memorable ride and one we will forever hold in our hearts. Each and everyone of you that has attended, played, worked, prayed for good weather, etc, is so very appreciated.

We feel sad to say this is the last, but as a good friend recently told me, "all good things must come to an end"...this journy we are on with life is amazing, we have made so many new close friends, we have experienced life at its best, we have met some of the best people on earth, we have gained much insight, we have gained faith beyond measure, we have learned what it truely means to walk with Jesus. I truely now understand that from every thing comes something good, we have to look hard to find it, but it is there.

Our son, Daniel is missed every single day in our family, he is loved beyond measure, he will never be forgotten... this event was started in memory of him, but has grown beyond and embraced so many loved ones, both young and old...

Just think of all the balloons we have released in memory of our loved ones at our event alone, at 500 plus each event for 9 years that is over 4500 balloons released to heaven, what a faithfilled message we deliver. Jesus certainly must be listening and smiling down on us.

I am inviting you to join us May 14 -15 at Lucan for a weekend of family fun, games, entertainment, music, laughter, hugs and just for the fun of being together with the ones you love.

We are signing teams for softball, volleyball, basketball, beanbag, and kids dodgeball. We will also need grillers, food servers, concessions workers, beertenders, and just folks to come support our cause... Contact me if interested in joining us..

Laurie and Terry family, Captain Dan Dream Team Inc


Apperal is Ready to Order

Captain Dan Dream Team Apparel is ready to order. Deadline to order pre-event is Thurs. April 21

We have lots of colors and sizes available for you. Please look over carefully, if interested email me your choices, confirm amount due with me and send me payment via check. I will take orders starting today thru next Thurs. April 21st at 8:00 pm. Will place order on Friday, April 22. Apparel needs to come in and be printed before Captain Dan event May 14th. I will have your apparel at event or you can pick up from me at my home. Send check to me at Laurie Ourada, 17303 State Hwy 68, Lucan, Mn 56255. Please pay when you order, I want to pay cash when I pick up order prior to event. thanks. Laurie Ourada eagle157@means.net

Gildan Brand Tee shirts
The tee shirts will have a front and back design.
Colors: Sand, Irish green, Heliconia pink, Iris blue these will have dark brown ink design.
Color: Dark chocolate with a Carolina blue ink design.
Cost: sm-xl $15.00, XXL $17.00, 3XL $19.00

Gildan Brand Long sleeve tee shirt
The long sleeve tee shirts will have 4 print locations front, back and each sleeve will have a full design of eagle feather.
Colors: sand, sangria pink, irish green, these will have dark brown ink.
Color: dark chocolate will have Carolina blue ink
Cost: sm-XL $25.00, XXL $27.00, 3XL $28.00

Kids tee shirts
Front and back design only
xs (2-4) s(6-8) Med. (10-12) Large (14-16) xl (18-20)
Colors: heliconia pink, daisy yellow, irish green all 3 listed will have dark brown ink.
Color: dark chocolate will have Carolina blue ink.
Cost $15.00

Kids long sleeve tee shirt
4 locations of design, front, back, both sleeves
Xs(2-4) sm(6-8) med (10-12) large (14-16) xl (18-20)
Colors: lime, yellow, and Kelly green will have dark brown ink design
Color: black and ash will have carolina blue ink design.
Cost $23.00

Adult Gildan Hooded Sweatshirts
4 locations of design, front, back and both sleeves
Colors: heliconia pink will have dark brown ink design.
Color: Dark brown will have Carolina blue ink design.
Cost: sm –XL $31.00 , XXL $34.00
Sizes 3XL – 5XL are available in sport grey and black with Carolina blue ink design
Cost: 3XL $36.00, 4XL $39.00, 5XL $40.00

Kids hooded sweatshirt
4 locations of design front, back, and both sleeves
Sm(6-8) med. (10-12) large (14-16) xl (18-20)
Color for kids: Carolina blue hoodie with dark brown ink
Color for kids: Dark brown hoodie with Carolina blue ink.
Cost $30.00

Infant onsies long sleeve
ultramarine Blue with White trim
front and back print only
Cost $15.00

Toddler full zipper hoodie
Sizes Toddler 2, 3, 4
Front and back design
Black with a Carolina blue design print
Cost $22.00


Captin Dan's Dream Team Making Memories

Captain Dan's Dream Team presenting a check to the Wabasso/RRC Wrestling Program
Laurie, Terry Ourada, Joe Kemp AD at Wabasso, coach Gary Hindt, coach Brett Bartholomaus

Nine years after his death, Daniel's legacy lives on in the Wabasso/RRC wrestling program and in the community he grew up in

January 21, 2011 - By Matt Dahlseid mdahlseid@marshallindependent.com

Daniel Ourada loved wrestling.

He was drawn to the sport's competitive nature, the sense of camaraderie among teammates and the life lessons learned from being on and around the mat.

In his fourth year as a student at Southwest Minnesota State, where he was a co-captain of the Mustang wrestling team, the former state qualifier for Wabasso felt it was about time to introduce his then 4-year-old brother, Dominic, to the sport that he and his two other brothers (Brandon and Michael) had grown up with. Daniel bought Dominic his first pair of wrestling shoes for a Christmas gift and was eager to begin teaching his little brother the basics that he had learned from his father, Terry Ourada.

Then on Dec. 28, 2001, just two days after he gifted Dominic his new shoes, Daniel died in a car accident at a bridge construction site that hadn't been barricaded.

Instead of remaining immersed in grief following the tragedy, the Ourada family looked for ways to remember Daniel and his glowing personality in a positive way. They first started a wrestling scholarship in his name at SMSU, and that idea led to the creation of Captain Dan Days, a charitable event that has been held each May for the past nine years at the Lucan City Park.

"The event was made to celebrate life, not only to help us to remember Daniel, but for others who have lost loved ones as well," said Laurie Ourada, Daniel's mother. "Each May, we come together as friends and family and as a community to celebrate life by doing all of the things that Daniel loved to do with his family and friends, like playing beanbag and softball, listening to music and cooking burgers on the grill."

More than $80,000 have been raised through Captain Dan Days, with the proceeds going toward local projects or organizations that Daniel held dear.

Since wrestling played a large role in Daniel's life, a portion of the money has been used to help his former teams. Endowment funds have been set up in Daniel's name at SMSU for the Mustangs and in Wabasso Area for the Wabasso/Red Rock Central wrestling teams, with a yearly scholarship being awarded to the wrestler of each team that best exemplifies the spirit of Daniel and his sportsmanship, hard work and community involvement.

Last April, Laurie called up Wabasso/RRC co-head coach Gary Hindt and asked him if he had a wish list for the wrestling program. With the Wabasso and RRC wrestling programs combining last season, Hindt said the team hadn't been properly outfitted and he asked for warmups and singlets, this is exactly what Laurie wanted to hear as she felt the team needed to be jazzed up a bit, everybody likes to look good and this is something we could help with.

"We didn't really have any warmups," said Hindt, who has coached all four Ourada boys, along with their father. "We'd just been going with plain Jane cotton sweat pants and sweatshirts. We kind of threw our programs together pretty fast and, when that happened, we were caught a little off guard with finances the way they are with the public schools these days."

On Jan. 10, before the Bobcats took on Class A's second-ranked team in front of a packed Wabasso High School gym, the Ourada family presented a $2,500 check to the Wabasso/RRC wrestling program. Instead of only being able to purchase warmups for a small portion of the roster, Hindt said the Bobcats were able to get 40 warmups thanks to the donation. Hindt said many of his wrestlers helped out at Captain Dan Days last May and that they appreciate what the event stands for and what it has provided for them.

Now an eighth-grader, Dominic is a member of the Bobcats junior varsity team and said he thinks of Daniel every time he puts on his warmups.

"It makes me feel good to know that his spirit lives on and everyone is keeping him in their minds," said Dominic, who still has the shoes Daniel gave him for Christmas displayed on a shelf in his family's home.

Laurie says it's fitting that Daniel has been able to help others even after his death, considering the way he lived his life.

"He was very caring,outgoing and friendly," she said. "He always gave a helping hand or a pat on the back to anyone who needed it. He was a very kind young man, always a twinkle in his eyes and a smile to share.

"On the mat, all of his teammates said he was very nurturing and considerate and was always helping build people up."

Daniel majored in kinesiology and sports management at SMSU and had a minor in coaching. Laurie said that he had wanted to coach high school wrestling and eventually help out at the collegiate level.

Even when Daniel was in high school, Hindt said he could tell Daniel would have made a good coach.

"He looked after the younger kids," Hindt said. "He always came into the wrestling room and if someone needed help, he was the first one to grab them and show them different techniques. Even when he was in college, he would come back to help his brothers and the other wrestlers with things that he had picked up wrestling in college or at camps."

Dominic was too young to have the opportunity to benefit from Daniel's vast wealth of wrestling knowledge, but he's still able to draw inspiration from his big brother as he grows as a person and as a wrestler.

"He told me to always do your best," Dominic said. "I ask him to help me before every match." "I hope I can be as good a person as him one day."


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